Are You Really Ready To Upsize Your Home?

June 05, 2017

Real estate season is in full swing — everywhere I look in my area there are homes with “For Sale” signs. There are some larger homes for sale in my neighborhood, and the families who buy those neighbors’ homes have multiple children and want room to grow and an excellent public school system. Have you been wondering whether it’s time to make a move to go bigger? How do you know if you should stay where you are for the time being instead? Here are the factors to consider:

What can you afford?

You’ll have the most financial freedom in your life if you keep total housing costs (mortgage, taxes, insurance, utilities, maintenance) to 25 to 35 percent of your after-tax income. For example, if your family take home is $4,500 per month, your monthly housing costs would range from $1,125 to $1,575. With a 20 percent down payment and a 30 year mortgage at 4 percent, that’s a purchase range of approximately $212,000 to $300,000 (see calculation here). I realize the 35 percent ratio could be a challenge in an insanely expensive city like Los Angeles or New York, where housing costs can eat up to half or more of a family’s income, but it’s a helpful guideline for maximum financial ease.

Why upsize to a bigger home?

When we moved back to the United States after an overseas assignment in Bermuda, a country with a very high cost of living, it was the bottom of the U.S. housing recession. Great deals on large homes in good school districts were available, so we upsized our living space to have room for three kids and lots of visitors, and still spent less than our previous location’s housing costs. This house will be too large for us once all the kids are grown up, but for now, we’re happy with the decision. Upsizing may be right for you if you can afford it and:

  • You would like the space for all your kids;
  • Grown children or grandchildren are moving in with you;
  • One or more parent(s) are moving in with you;
  • You’re moving to a less expensive state and you can afford more house for the same cost;
  • You need more space for a home office/business; or
  • You’ve always wanted to have a big house – it’s a serious bucket list item.

You’ll upsize a lot more than your mortgage

Caution: with a bigger house or bigger acreage, you’re upsizing more than your mortgage. Everything costs more: property taxes, homeowner’s insurance, home maintenance, furniture, painting, landscape, etc. Make sure you take those increased costs into account when figuring out how much you can afford.

If your mortgage is 30% bigger, your other bills will be as well. For example, if you upsize from a $200,000 mortgage to a $300,000 mortgage you should expect your related costs to go up by a third as well. Upsizing can also prompt “keeping up with the Joneses” syndrome, where you feel like you must compete with neighbors who have a more lavish lifestyle. Finally, if you frequently have visitors, do you really need or want to accommodate them in your home, or would it be better and cheaper to put them up in a nearby hotel over time than to pay the costs of upsizing?

Or should you stay put?

A bigger house is a bigger financial commitment. If you can’t afford the total costs, you’ll be “house poor.” If you just can’t decide what your next home purchase should be and at what price it makes sense, there are plenty of reasons to stay put instead of upsizing to a larger home:

  • You like your current home and its size fits your family;
  • You enjoy your neighborhood and your neighbors;
  • You and your spouse don’t agree on what to do next;
  • You don’t want your kids to have to change schools;
  • The costs of selling a home and buying a new one may not make it worth it to move right now; or
  • You believe real estate prices will rise on your street over the next few years, so you are willing to wait to sell.

Moving is a big decision. Our sense of community is often connected to a physical location. You may find that going bigger gives you a more spacious and satisfied feeling, assuming you can swing the additional expense. On the other hand, if you’re not sure if it’s the right time to move on, it may make sense to stay put until you have a clearer idea of where you want to go and what makes sense for your goals going forward. There’s always next spring to revisit the question.

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